It is widely known amongst my small circle of friends that I have an opinion about almost everything. When it comes to women and their hair, I just go crazy because I know a ton of fabulous powerful women who get their hair done every week by stylists who barely satisfy them. Inspite of their dissatisfaction, they keep returning to the same hair dresser who gives them the same bad hair-do, and sometimes keeps them waiting for hours for the priviledge of having the bad experience.
It just makes me nuts. That said, I want all women to stop it! It's your money, and your hair. The stylist works for you. It's not the other way around. Today is the day you take your power back. Here's how.
10 TEN STEPS YOU CAN TAKE
TO SHOW YOUR HAIR DRESSER WHO’S IN CHARGE by Crystal Wright
1. Ask the hairdresser to order you a set of the same tools that she uses to do your hair. You can’t get the same bounce at home with a 1-inch barrel, if your hairdresser is using a 2-1/2-inch barrel in the salon. It won’t work.
2. Ask the hairdresser what products she uses on your hair, and then note the order and amount of each product that she uses to give you the style you love so much.
3. Start showing up on time to ALL your hair appointments, and the next time your hair dresser keeps you waiting more than 20 minutes for an appointment, leave, or ask for a discount
4. Always have a plan B. If you wait til’ the last minute to get an appointment and your hairdresser is booked you should have at least 3 other numbers in your speed dial who can get you together at a moments notice––even if it costs a little more. Otherwise, do your own hair with those tools from the list that your stylist gave you.
5. Tell your hairdresser what you like about the way she cuts, or styles, or conditions, or maintains your hair, and then let her know that you are looking for someone else to do the other things.
6. Stop tipping your hairdresser when you’re unhappy. It sends the wrong message. You wouldn’t do it with your kids, don’t do it with your stylist.
7. Stop leaving the chair unhappy without letting your hairdresser know why. Your girlfriends cannot solve your hair issues unless they have a recommendation for another stylist.
8. Know when it’s time to get a new hairdresser. If it takes you 3 hours in the salon to get a shampoo, blow-dry, and curl, it’s time to look elsewhere. If the stylist still thinks that Royal Crown is the only product he/she can use to get your hair straight––it’s time to get a new stylist.
9. Build a rapport with your stylist’s assistant, so that if he/she gets backed up in the salon, you can ask the assistant to complete your do.
10. If you’re looking for a new stylist, call the manufacturer [who makes the products that the stylist is using on your hair] and ask for a list of stylists in your area that are considered experts with that hair care line. Set up an appointment to go and meet with them, and spend an hour watching what they do with someone else’s hair.
Photo credits for this story: 1. Leila Arcieri hair styled by Darico Jackson Los Angeles. 2. Suzanne Stevens & Crystal Wright. Out on the town. Circa 2007
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